Chatting with strangers, raising awareness about scleroderma
I share my story and hope it inspires someone to help in the fight
I love to have conversations with strangers and tell them about scleroderma.
I take time during brief encounters at the library, supermarket lines, the nail salon, and airport gates. The challenge is to provide the information in two minutes or less to spark and keep the listener’s attention. I ask if they are familiar with scleroderma and explain how it sneaks in and attacks parts of the body, causing arthritic pain, loss of fingers and toes, skin tightness, and the hardening of organs. I show them my hands and do the pinch test to demonstrate the thickness of my skin.
I also provide some general terminology while telling them that many patients diagnosed with scleroderma experience skin tightening, Raynaud’s phenomenon, and gastroesophagael reflux disease (GERD). Some may also have lung fibrosis, interstitial lung disease, and pulmonary hypertension. I make a point to mention hip-hop singer and actress Queen Latifah, and explain that scleroderma is what her mom died from. The late actor Bob Saget lost his sister to scleroderma as well.
During my chats, I mention the advocacy organizations I have been involved with that help rare disease patients maintain or improve their quality of life. These include the National Organization for Rare Disorders, Global Genes, the Rare Disease Legislative Advocates, the University of Michigan’s RENEW Scleroderma app, Northwestern Medicine, and Rare Patient Voice.
I will even direct people to my website.
I encourage them to get involved with helping those less fortunate and explain we need access to better healthcare and other supportive services. I tell them that scleroderma is complicated. At times, the disease is silent, and someone won’t know what’s going on until new symptoms appear or an old one reappears.
Raising awareness about scleroderma
A person who takes an interest in what I’m saying may ask about the treatments available to people with scleroderma. I explain that therapies often target a specific symptom or related condition. For instance, a patient might take antacids or a proton pump inhibitor for GERD. I forget to take mine sometimes and struggle to stay away from fried foods, which can trigger an episode. I love chicken wings.
Other scleroderma patients might require a feeding tube for nourishment. Lung fibrosis patients may need supplemental oxygen. Treatment varies for all of us, depending on how our disease manifests.
I tell people that many patients aren’t diagnosed for a few years after symptom onset. During this time, their disease may progress, potentially causing irreversible damage. Early diagnosis is crucial.
June is Scleroderma Awareness Month, providing a perfect opportunity to talk about the need for financial support for research. More knowledge and treatment options will allow patients to receive better care. I explain how we need hassle-free medication approvals from insurance companies, prior authorizations on repeat medicines, and quicker diagnoses. I tell them how important it is to cure this disease.
I share my personal life with strangers to help spread awareness about scleroderma. It’s good for my mental health to share my story. I don’t end my conversations somberly; I mention the great joys I still have, such as watching the television series “Dr. Pimple Popper,” which focuses mostly on dermatological issues. I talk about how I travel with my granddaughters. I am forever reminding myself there will always be someone less fortunate than me. Even when every two out of three days seem incredibly tough, I hold on to my faith. I continue to advocate and fight like a warrior.
I tell anyone who’s listening about the teal ribbon associated with scleroderma and that Scleroderma Awareness Month always includes a fundraising walk.
The strangers I speak to may not remember all they learned about this incurable rare disease, but I do my best to encourage them to attend or participate in upcoming events in their hometown. Thank you for chatting and listening.
Note: Scleroderma News is strictly a news and information website about the disease. It does not provide medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. This content is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have read on this website. The opinions expressed in this column are not those of Scleroderma News or its parent company, Bionews, and are intended to spark discussion about issues pertaining to scleroderma.
Comments
Dawn Trykowski
Today I have pain with eating and try to stay as strong as I have been in the past. 27 years of experience has been how much I have tried to, I have been in group therapy, Please do this for yourself. You are not alone many blessings. Dawn
Rosemary
I have limited scleroderma too with Raynauds Phenonmem. I use electric gloves all winter and cold rainy days. I take a shower or do dishes, and get numb fingers because I cant get the moisture dried off and my hands get cold. My toes turn purple when i do not have shoes on. I wear an electric vest to keep my torsel warm. I have not found electric socks yet. My fingers on my left hand continually stiffen and close into my palm until i can massage my palm and open them, and now i am 80 years old. I was diagnosed in March of 2023. I have been doing a lot of resrarch on google. Only one medication helps but i can not take it because it is a blood pressure med and my blood pressure dropped way down.
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Janice Elder
Enjoyed this article immensely, as I was Dx: 10/2022, it’s been hard to explain it to others, 🙏 thank you
Rob Campbell
Sherlene, wish you only the best on your journey. My sister was diagnosed 18 years ago and still keeps up the good fight.
I'm looking for individuals with Scleroderma in Arizona interested in becoming involved with National Scleroderma Foundation support groups. They can contact the Rocky Mountain Chapter directly.
stay strong !!
JoAnne Staehnke
Thank you all, for being open. I am still new at this Scleroderma education. I had never heard of June being Scleroderma Awareness month or a Walk for Scleroderma. I was just diagnosed Dec 2023, have no clue how long I've had it and don't seem to show much of symptoms or they're mild. But started on the LDN 2 months ago. From the reports I've read on this site and my functional Med Dr, it seems I'm on the right track. The first autoimmune disease I diagnosed myself was Hashimoto's, then Lupus was discovered. As I looked up and learned info on autoimmune and the meds that caused mine, I quit taking them and built my immune system. 2 years later, labs showed 'no trace' of them or allergies. Now, HERE I AM. The more reports I read, the scarier it is, thankful that there is research and help to be found. Although, I've also read that I need to have a rheumatologist, kidney and lung dr at some point, there are none to be found in my city so far that even recognize the word Scleroderma, certain my ex-cardiologist wouldn't have a clue from previous (attempted)discussion of other cardiovascular influences. How do you find Good, Caring Real doctors who know? Serious question. Please
Elena Telford
Hi I’m new in the group I’m interested in learning more about scleroderma limited and raydnauds desviase I struggle with specially at work, I’m looking for a group in Utah area and i would like to participate in any research, thank you