Last weekend was our son’s graduation in Dunedin, a city in southern New Zealand that is home to Otago University. We were extremely proud to be there to watch him receive his degree in physical education.
Traveling to Dunedin involved a five-hour car trip, complete with bathroom breaks and lunch at a nice coffee lounge. I was sure to stay hydrated and have all my medications close at hand. Arm and leg stretches were compulsory to stop me from seizing up, and warm clothes were packed to combat Raynaud’s, despite it being summer in New Zealand.
I’ve become used to traveling with scleroderma and have developed a comprehensive list of do’s and dont’s. Consequently, our trip went without a hitch.
However, there was one thing I didn’t have the foresight to prepare for.
Seeing one of your children graduate is a momentous occasion. It is an event not to be missed. It is a once-in-a-lifetime occasion, alongside weddings and the birth of grandchildren. So, as I lie in bed after the exciting day had come to an end, it was with dismay that I found myself beginning to wonder whether I would be around to see my kids’ other important life events unfold.
Now, I know this sounds like a depressing thing to be focusing on after such a wonderful day, but honestly, I think most people with serious medical conditions have these thoughts. I think that it is important to acknowledge them rather than use up my precious energy trying to avoid thinking about it. For me, acknowledging the elephant in the room makes it less scary.
The other thing that happens is that if I can see the darkness, then it makes the light brighter. I’m not certain if that’s the way it works for everyone, but it certainly does for me.
So, while it was sad to think I may miss some things, in acknowledging this, it actually means that my current blessings stand out like the precious gifts that they are. Each wonderful milestone I get to experience with my children is a treasure to be prized and cherished.
The additional spinoff is that this appreciation spills over into other ordinary things in my life.
This Christmas, I feel truly blessed, not only to be experiencing another happy holiday with my family but also because I have been able to find the gratitude to appreciate this and many other gifts life has to offer this Scleroderma Warrior.
Merry Christmas, everyone!
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