My Scleroderma Sunflower Therapy

My Scleroderma Sunflower Therapy

Scleroderma and the Ordinary Girl

Over the past week, I have been an angry little person. I contracted my husband’s head cold, and my immune system hasn’t coped well at all. Three weeks later, I remain exhausted. I’ve also had clinic appointments for my adrenal insufficiency, and doctors have concluded I will need steroids for the rest of my life.

Fun times.

The Marge Simpson growling noise I regularly emit while struggling with simple housework is not a good look, nor are the furious mutterings about other drivers from behind the safety of my steering wheel.

I know this anger hides pain. The truth is that I’m just so disappointed about the life limitations dictated by scleroderma. My pain is bred of deep grief and identity loss. Scleroderma changes many things, and my personality has drastically morphed.

I realize I tend to avoid leaving my anger behind because it means I must face the underlying pain. The problem is that I get stuck in a perpetual cycle of fury, which I call “angry little person mode.” By facing my pain head-on, I can work through it, which frees me to shift my attention to other things.

The sunflower is the international symbol of scleroderma. I love sunflowers. The cool thing is that sunflowers know exactly where the darkness is, so they turn their heads toward the sun.

Recognizing where darkness exists — my grief, identity loss, and anger — helps me see where the light is. I take the sunflowers’ example and turn my head toward the bright direction. In the light, I find gratitude for things that persist despite the darkness. This new vibration offers me a chance to move forward and explore a more joyful me.

Although it is tempting to stay an angry little person, the sunflowers’ wisdom inspires me. It takes bravery to face pain and hard work to move through it, but freeing myself to turn toward the good things in my life has “unstuck” me.

To celebrate, I’d like to share some of the things for which I am thankful. Enjoy these photos I’ve taken.


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