I recently had lunch at the casino with a dear friend. We had planned it for some time, it was in my online diary, and I was really pleased to wake up on the day feeling well enough to go.
Lunch was delicious, and I even had a few coins and a little extra energy. So, we tried our luck on the slot machines.
Gambling is not generally a huge pastime for me, particularly since I don’t get out often. I’m definitely not going to make it to the high roller room with my 40-cent bets and $20 limit, I assure you! However, once in a while, I consider it to be a bit of fun, and it’s kind of nice to sit there watching the bells and whistles go off and taking in the flashing lights. For a time, it distracts me from my body and its continuing issues.
While my friend and I sat there like the two big spenders we are, we started to notice a repetitive pattern going on with my friend’s slot machine. You have to wait for three identical pictures to come up on a spin, and if this happens, you are awarded some free games, which is always exciting.
However, what repeatedly happened was that she would only get two of the same pictures, but not three. Our excitement would mount as we eagerly waited for the third one to roll around, but it never did, leaving us feeling rather deflated every time.
Although we had a giggle over it on our way out the door, there was something familiar about that feeling of excited anticipation building, only to be dashed at the last minute. I just couldn’t quite put my finger on it at the time.
It was a couple of days later that I finally identified why that deflated, disappointed feeling was familiar to me.
I had experienced a decrease in pain with new medication, and I was excited about another good day to come.
As luck would have it, scleroderma decided to swindle me. I woke up with a painful and unexpected kidney issue. The deflation and disappointment were sharp as I grudgingly arranged to get to the doctor as soon as possible. It was the same disheartening feeling as at the casino, only much worse.
The thing I’ve learned about living with a horrible illness like scleroderma is that I’m foolish to bet on expectations that the disease will give me any kind of a break for an extended time. Sadly, I’ve become extremely cynical about that.
However, the spin-off from that particular lesson is that the days I am winning are like treasures, and my true appreciation and gratitude on those days is a bit like hitting the jackpot!
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